Great Adventure was great.
I had a great time, the other mom bitched..just as I thought she would.
TheToddler..she had a great day, loved the Wiggles!
TheKeeper and her gaggle? Had a blast!
Im broke, but it was worth it!
Today is TheToddler's Birthday, she is 2!
We hadn't planned to do much, but she when she woke up this morning..She asked "my Birthday today?"
So after softball (at the ass crack of dawn) we got her a cake and balloons. A cool bubble maker & a bike from Walmart.
She is on her "wing set" with TheKeepersdad.
My family? No call. Sad that they suck. It's OK, because TheToddler will never know. It really sucked for TheKeeper when they didn't call for her birthday.
Sunday=Soccer. Early home game, three great words!
Not sure what I'm going to do about them.
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Mean People Suck.
We are taking 2 cars, because mean people suck.
Also wanted to add, or clarify, that I'd be ok if the girls made plans. If the girls made plans to go to the movies or the mall. Great, no problem.
I have a problem with not asking the last girl to come, because three girls are going. TheKeeper, Bff1 & Bff3. It was just Bff2 that was left out.
The other thing, the mom came up with a story, a story to tell Bff2, ..Really now? asking my kid to lie, or putting her in an uncomfortable spot, not cool.
It was only when I told her I was uncomfortable and was going to call Bff2's mom, did she sing a different tune.
It's done & over. All is right and just. The girls will all go, 2 cars and TheToddler.
I'll let you know how it goes.
Also wanted to add, or clarify, that I'd be ok if the girls made plans. If the girls made plans to go to the movies or the mall. Great, no problem.
I have a problem with not asking the last girl to come, because three girls are going. TheKeeper, Bff1 & Bff3. It was just Bff2 that was left out.
The other thing, the mom came up with a story, a story to tell Bff2, ..Really now? asking my kid to lie, or putting her in an uncomfortable spot, not cool.
It was only when I told her I was uncomfortable and was going to call Bff2's mom, did she sing a different tune.
It's done & over. All is right and just. The girls will all go, 2 cars and TheToddler.
I'll let you know how it goes.
Got a second?
I in in a quandary.
Great Adventure is becoming a real pain in the ass.
This mother, has said, she'd rather leave Bff2 home then take 2 cars.
Now, I as a mother would be so hurt by this. I would be hurt for my daughter.
My heart would ache. If I knew that it was my kid that wasn't asked, that the girls went with out my kid.
How does a grown woman become so selfish?
PS, she is already driving tomorrow. I would be the second car.
I am hurt, really because I know by her actions today, that she would do the same to my kid in a heartbeat.
Do I call my mother? I mean I haven't talked to her in months, to come and watch Sarah, so the kid can go?
Do I just tell her to fuck off, that she is acting like a bitch & I am going to drive ...
I know I am not going to be friends with this woman, that I could not be after knowing how mean she can be. Knowing what I know.
Now I ask again, is it me? Am I no longer capable of having friends?
Has this world produced such evil women that they would spite children?
AM I overly protective?
Can some one drop by with coffee and talk me thru this?
Really. I am at a loss.
Great Adventure is becoming a real pain in the ass.
This mother, has said, she'd rather leave Bff2 home then take 2 cars.
Now, I as a mother would be so hurt by this. I would be hurt for my daughter.
My heart would ache. If I knew that it was my kid that wasn't asked, that the girls went with out my kid.
How does a grown woman become so selfish?
PS, she is already driving tomorrow. I would be the second car.
I am hurt, really because I know by her actions today, that she would do the same to my kid in a heartbeat.
Do I call my mother? I mean I haven't talked to her in months, to come and watch Sarah, so the kid can go?
Do I just tell her to fuck off, that she is acting like a bitch & I am going to drive ...
I know I am not going to be friends with this woman, that I could not be after knowing how mean she can be. Knowing what I know.
Now I ask again, is it me? Am I no longer capable of having friends?
Has this world produced such evil women that they would spite children?
AM I overly protective?
Can some one drop by with coffee and talk me thru this?
Really. I am at a loss.
Great Adventure.
We are going to Great Adventure, yhippie
I have to take TheToddler.
I am hoping it all turns out OK.
I had a great conversation with my one and only IRL friend last night. She is wise & good.
Bff2 is here, asleep somewhere with TheKeeper
The trees are green again, it is a great day. The kind of day when you really think, "today is the day!" I am going to do all things I say I will do, but alas, go to bed with everyone not done.
So Today is the day, by default. I did nothing yesterday. I will start slow. Bank, Stop n Shop & Oil change place... come home..let TheToddler nap, clean car, house & finish laundry. Soccer.
TheToddler will have a birthday on Saturday. I have to get her something to open. TheKeepers dad said to wrap one of the 9,000 things she already has..he had a good idea. She will never know...
Off to conquer the day. or seize, or change the oil before the engine seizes..whatever comes first..
I have to take TheToddler.
I am hoping it all turns out OK.
I had a great conversation with my one and only IRL friend last night. She is wise & good.
Bff2 is here, asleep somewhere with TheKeeper
The trees are green again, it is a great day. The kind of day when you really think, "today is the day!" I am going to do all things I say I will do, but alas, go to bed with everyone not done.
So Today is the day, by default. I did nothing yesterday. I will start slow. Bank, Stop n Shop & Oil change place... come home..let TheToddler nap, clean car, house & finish laundry. Soccer.
TheToddler will have a birthday on Saturday. I have to get her something to open. TheKeepers dad said to wrap one of the 9,000 things she already has..he had a good idea. She will never know...
Off to conquer the day. or seize, or change the oil before the engine seizes..whatever comes first..
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
I win.
I know it's me.
I have always been selfish.
We are going Friday.
So, I know that most people find blogs about family boring. The day to day life of someone else is not good reading..yes, I get that.
Then why do I read so many blogs about other moms just trying to get ahead? Just trying to feel better..like we are all shouting from roof tops..Listen to me!
So I read them, I know 1 or 2 people come back and read about us. I like to talk, but really have no one to talk too..
So I blog..and you read. OK?
TheKeeper got all she wanted form the mall. She is happy. Our money tree, is bare...again. I have said it before, we create our own monsters. I have created a monster. This is her drug of choice..
We will attempt 2 year old photos tomorrow. Today I clean. and an Oil change..for the Soccer wagon/softball caravan.
So I leave you today, wondering , just as I do..why do some parents still act like 14 year old girls? Why must adults be mean and catty? Why do they talk about other peoples kids? Why do they think everyone acts this way? It's heartbreaking. Heartbreaking when this 12, 13 0r 14 kid is out on some field in some town just like mine, and some adult will say things like "that kid sucks" or "new pitcher" or "shoot, the Keeper (not mine) sucks!" (Read:not my keeper, the other teams keeper, but a parent I know..and had it been my keeper, I would have gone Ghetto.)..The best? "Everybody move up, this kid can't hit"..now ladies and gentlemen..That was a coach. OUCH
Sad so Sad what our kids have to put up with. Makes you think, about all those kids who are on medication and suicidal. We had done this, we have created monsters.
I have always been selfish.
We are going Friday.
So, I know that most people find blogs about family boring. The day to day life of someone else is not good reading..yes, I get that.
Then why do I read so many blogs about other moms just trying to get ahead? Just trying to feel better..like we are all shouting from roof tops..Listen to me!
So I read them, I know 1 or 2 people come back and read about us. I like to talk, but really have no one to talk too..
So I blog..and you read. OK?
TheKeeper got all she wanted form the mall. She is happy. Our money tree, is bare...again. I have said it before, we create our own monsters. I have created a monster. This is her drug of choice..
We will attempt 2 year old photos tomorrow. Today I clean. and an Oil change..for the Soccer wagon/softball caravan.
So I leave you today, wondering , just as I do..why do some parents still act like 14 year old girls? Why must adults be mean and catty? Why do they talk about other peoples kids? Why do they think everyone acts this way? It's heartbreaking. Heartbreaking when this 12, 13 0r 14 kid is out on some field in some town just like mine, and some adult will say things like "that kid sucks" or "new pitcher" or "shoot, the Keeper (not mine) sucks!" (Read:not my keeper, the other teams keeper, but a parent I know..and had it been my keeper, I would have gone Ghetto.)..The best? "Everybody move up, this kid can't hit"..now ladies and gentlemen..That was a coach. OUCH
Sad so Sad what our kids have to put up with. Makes you think, about all those kids who are on medication and suicidal. We had done this, we have created monsters.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Is it me?
Tomorrow Bff1's mom wants to go to Great Adventure.
Great I say, but we can go Friday.
Umm, well ok she said. Like she was about to get all bitchy.
and she did
She wants to go Wednesday, I want to go Friday.
I say I'll take 'em all Friday.
She wants to go.
I say you can take TheKeeper and go tomorrow, but I ca't go.
But she says, It wont be fun without you.
Really now? I think, you don't know me..I stay away from you..
I am going to stick to my guns, we will go Friday. I will take a bunch of girls & TheToddler and just go.
So I ask you. Why can't I just get along with people IRL? I mean, I know that Bff1's mom is an adult stuck in a 14 year old's body.
The reason she wants to go tomorrow?
Bff2 & Bff3 can't go, they can go Friday.
Yes, I tell you she is a 14 year old girl!
But I ask again, Why can't I get along with people IRL?
I can't stand most folks.
Some, because they are idiots.
Some, because they are enablers & I hate that.
But mostly it is because they open their mouth and shit spews out.
Back to Great Adventure, I am going on Friday with a gaggle of girls..whether she likes it or not
Great I say, but we can go Friday.
Umm, well ok she said. Like she was about to get all bitchy.
and she did
She wants to go Wednesday, I want to go Friday.
I say I'll take 'em all Friday.
She wants to go.
I say you can take TheKeeper and go tomorrow, but I ca't go.
But she says, It wont be fun without you.
Really now? I think, you don't know me..I stay away from you..
I am going to stick to my guns, we will go Friday. I will take a bunch of girls & TheToddler and just go.
So I ask you. Why can't I just get along with people IRL? I mean, I know that Bff1's mom is an adult stuck in a 14 year old's body.
The reason she wants to go tomorrow?
Bff2 & Bff3 can't go, they can go Friday.
Yes, I tell you she is a 14 year old girl!
But I ask again, Why can't I get along with people IRL?
I can't stand most folks.
Some, because they are idiots.
Some, because they are enablers & I hate that.
But mostly it is because they open their mouth and shit spews out.
Back to Great Adventure, I am going on Friday with a gaggle of girls..whether she likes it or not
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